I had another routine ultrasound last week. This one was a bit uncomfortable because they needed me to have a full bladder. My family kept on telling me to not pee because I needed a full bladder and honestly, at how far along I was, filling up my bladder is not that hard.
It’s amazing how a few months worth of growing makes. Once again, we saw her body parts which we’ve seen the last time I went for an ultrasound: her limbs, a profile of her face, her stomach, her heart / heartbeat. But what I was incredibly happy about is seeing her face. True, ultrasound faces are not very clear but it’s the fact that we were able to see the front view of her face: eyelids, nose and mouth.
Also, this pregnancy is so much different from my first. My self-esteem is definitely taking a beating: my legs are swollen, I gained more weight, and I got way more stretch marks regardless of how much moisturizer I apply on my belly. Honestly though, I wouldn’t trade all of this for the world if at the end of all this, we get a healthy and happy baby.
We’ve also started pulling out Taylor’s old clothes to get washed and sorted. I can’t believe how much clothes a tiny person can accumulate in almost 4 years! We’ve also pulled out Taylor’s ducky suit (pictured above) to bring home baby no. 2 in. It’s the same suit Taylor wore when we took her home from the hospital. Nostalgia’s hitting hard these past few days as we start to get everything ready.
Taylor is almost 4, and will be a big sister soon.
I cannot even begin to tell you how many times I had to fight with my three-year-old to try out new foods. Now let me clear out what “new” means. “New foods”, when it comes to me feeding it to my toddler means either one of two things:
The same kind of food but cooked differently. For example, mashed potatoes and roasted potatoes. They’re both potatoes but they are prepared and cooked differently.
Something totally new. Something she has never tried before.
I used to envy other parents whenever I see their kids eat whatever is laid out in front of them. There’s no “I don’t want that” or “I don’t like it”. They just eat while I’m on the other side struggling to get my kid to take even a single bite.
I now have come to realize my daughter has specific tastes of her own ad once in a while, I would need to navigate around it. However, one trick I found works with her whenever I’m introducing something new is telling her this:
Simply try it. If you don’t like it, I won’t ask again.
This works 99% of the time. It allows her to decide for herself if she’ll like what I put in her mouth or not. If she says it’s yummy, I’ll ask her if she wants more. If not, then I stop. More often than not, she ends up coming back and asking for more.
I think becoming a parent has made me more aware of raising a person who not only eat a variety of food, but also is willing to try those he/she has never had before.
What about you? Do you have any tips or tricks into getting your toddlers or kids to eat new foods?
The beginning of the year marks the time where everyone is writing about their goals and/or resolutions for the year. I lot of the blogs I follow have blog updates regarding their goals for 2018 and here I am doing the same thing. I used to give myself a definite number of resolutions to fulfil but have come to realize that method simply doesn’t work for me at all. This time around, I would be giving myself goals to work on this year to better in certain aspects of my life/self. Here are my goals for 2018:
Be a better parent. I want to work on being calmer, more patient, more present and more understanding. I want to be able to look at what my kids will do and be able to tell when to not make a big deal out of it.
Be a better wife. I need to learn what my mom does. SHe’s so good at keeping her distance when my dad is upset about something. She knows how not to take it personally and I greatly admire her for that. I seem to get upset when my husband accidentally blows up at me because he’s mad at a video game. I would end up thinking our day is ruined when truthfully he probably just needs to cool off a bit. I also need to learn how to keep my cool when the situation calls for it to keep both of us from turning on each other.
My reading goal last year was to re-read books I fell in love with to re-kindle my love for reading. I did ok in the first month. All of a sudden I didn’t have the time and a whole lot of books are being turned into movies. And well, my TBR just kept growing.
This year my goal is to simply read. I’m not going to worry about how many books I get to read. Reading challenges will serve as inspiration for when I get in a rut instead of an actual challenge to fulfil.
So yes, this year, all I’m aiming for it to be able to read.
I learned two things last month when I participated in Blogmas.
It pays to plan out your posts. I did 12 posts for Blogmas and thank goodness I decided to plan my posts ahead of time. I was able to complete it without struggling to come up with ideas every morning before I go to work. Plus having a list of what I wanted to blog about allowed me to schedule a few at a time so I didn’t need to work on my blog as much during the holidays; and,
It IS a lot of work. As much I’m not exactly new to blogging, I’m still learning about the ways you can get traffic and exposure to your blog / posts. This means I do things manually. I am aware about services which will do social media sharing for you but I’m not in that place yet where I can afford to spend extra money for it.
This year, I’m hoping I stay on track with scheduling posts. I started using a blogging notebook to get all my ideas in one place, so hopefully that helps.
ON PROJECT LIFE
If you haven’t heard of project life, it’s pretty much a much simpler form of scrapbooking as it features pocket pages. That is the main reason I get into it because a blank canvas intimidates me. I can never get a proper page layout on my own so having pockets to insert pictures in are a lifesaver.
My main goal about documenting this year is to give digital scrapbooking a try. Becky Higgins offers an app where in you can make digital scrapbook pages right in your device. I’m still on the fence about it because I know I can pretty much do the same thing using photoshop. All I’m paying for is the convenience of being able to create pages on the go. I’m hoping to make up my mind soon enough.
So there it is. These are all of the things I would like to work on in 2018. What about you? What are your goals/resolutions for this year?
Over Blogmas, I posted about my bookish wishlist which my husband asked me to give him. It was a hefty list for me given I don’t know if I will have the time to read half of it. My loving husband, however, came through and got me enough which would probably last for quite a while in the next year. Here are the books I got for Christmas:
The Chronicles of Narnia by C. S. Lewis – My husband was worried about this already being in my read list that he asked me if I have a list of books I have already read. I didn’t hesitate on showing him my Goodreads profile for him to check. I’ve seen the movies, but I haven’t actually read the books so I’m pretty excited about this.
Dante’s The Divine Comedy – This is one I wasn’t expecting to get. I haven’t tried scanning it so I don’t know how the writing will be like. It will take me a while to get through this one but I’m pretty stoked about it.
The Lunar Chronicles by Marissa Meyer – I have read Cinder and enjoyed it a lot. I love the idea of fairytale retellings with a twist. I have the rest of the series on my TBR list for a while now but between new releases, and book-to-movie adaptations this series just kept on getting pushed back. Hopefully in the coming year, despite the number of adaptations which will be coming out, I would get to finish at least half of the series.
Those are all the books I got for Christmas. My TBR pile is growing so fast I honestly can’t keep up. Haha! Oh well. Here’s to hoping this coming year will allow me to read more amidst the new baby.
Reading wrap-ups are something I have never done before. It’s where one lists all the books they’ve read for a period of time. Most of the time I watch reading wrap-ups in YouTube and I marvel at the number of books these booktubers read in a month. I struggle to finish one book in one month’s time so seeing other people finish so many is incredible to me.
Today, I bring you my 2017 reading wrap-up. Here are all the books I have read the past year. It’s not much, but I’m proud I was able to get this much reading between work, chores, and a three-year-old.
Tuck Everlasting by Natalie Babbit – (re-read) I have read Tuck Everlasting a few times since I got it. I was first introduced to this through it’s adaptation which I enjoyed as well. I love how this discusses immortality and the importance of simply living your life. We all have those times where we want to live forever and this book pulls us back down to show us if it’s worth it.
The Chrysalids by John Wyndham – My husband recommended this to me while we were browsing a used bookstore once. As I have mentioned before, he’s more of a manga person so whenever he recommends picture-less books I usually give it a try. The story was infuriating. Don’t get me wrong, I loved it but I also wanted to throw it across the room to hurt certain characters who pissed me off.
Flora and Ulysses by Kate DiCamillo – This is about a girl and a squirrel who ended up having an unlikely friendship which her mother did not understand. I loved how quick of a read it is, and it provided me with the much needed break from the regular types / genres of books I read.
Help Me Follow My Sister Into the Land of the Dead by Carmen Maria Machado – This is a commissioned short story from my Page Habit October box. It’s about a woman named Ursula who started up a Go Fund Me page to find her sister Olive.
The Murders Of Molly Southbourne by Tade Thompson – I read this around Halloween. I read how this is scary and terrifying, but it’s more mind-boggling. It didn’t scare me as much as I would think, and I get scared easily. I can’t even watch horror movies in the dark.
A Christmas Carol by Charles Dickens – I told myself this year I wouldn’t let the holiday season pass without reading Dickens’ A Christmas Carol. It has been one of the best book related decision I made this year. I don’t know if I will turn it into a personal tradition of reading this every year but it’s something I’ll definitely think about.
Those are the books I’ve read this year. It’s not a lot, but it’s something. I’m just glad I was able to carve out the time to read this year. I’m hoping next year won’t be as hard. 🙂