2018 GOALS: Life, Reading, Blogging and Project Life

2018 GOALS | Life, Reading, Blogging and Project Life
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The beginning of the year marks the time where everyone is writing about their goals and/or resolutions for the year. I lot of the blogs I follow have blog updates regarding their goals for 2018 and here I am doing the same thing. I used to give myself a definite number of resolutions to fulfil but have come to realize that method simply doesn’t work for me at all. This time around, I would be giving myself goals to work on this year to better in certain aspects of my life/self. Here are my goals for 2018:

 

ON LIFE

  • Be a better parent. I want to work on being calmer, more patient, more present and more understanding. I want to be able to look at what my kids will do and be able to tell when to not make a big deal out of it.
  • Be a better wife. I need to learn what my mom does. SHe’s so good at keeping her distance when my dad is upset about something. She knows how not to take it personally and I greatly admire her for that. I seem to get upset when my husband accidentally blows up at me because he’s mad at a video game. I would end up thinking our day is ruined when truthfully he probably just needs to cool off a bit. I also need to learn how to keep my cool when the situation calls for it to keep both of us from turning on each other.

 

ON READING

My reading goal last year was to re-read books I fell in love with to re-kindle my love for reading. I did ok in the first month. All of a sudden I didn’t have the time and a whole lot of books are being turned into movies. And well, my TBR just kept growing.

This year my goal is to simply read. I’m not going to worry about how many books I get to read. Reading challenges will serve as inspiration for when I get in a rut instead of an actual challenge to fulfil.

So yes, this year, all I’m aiming for it to be able to read.

 

ON BLOGGING

I learned two things last month when I participated in Blogmas.

  1. It pays to plan out your posts. I did 12 posts for Blogmas and thank goodness I decided to plan my posts ahead of time. I was able to complete it without struggling to come up with ideas every morning before I go to work. Plus having a list of what I wanted to blog about allowed me to schedule a few at a time so I didn’t need to work on my blog as much during the holidays; and,
  2.  It IS a lot of work. As much I’m not exactly new to blogging, I’m still learning about the ways you can get traffic and exposure to your blog / posts. This means I do things manually. I am aware about services which will do social media sharing for you but I’m not in that place yet where I can afford to spend extra money for it.

This year, I’m hoping I stay on track with scheduling posts. I started using a blogging notebook to get all my ideas in one place, so hopefully that helps.

 

ON PROJECT LIFE

If you haven’t heard of project life, it’s pretty much a much simpler form of scrapbooking as it features pocket pages. That is the main reason I get into it because a blank canvas intimidates me. I can never get a proper page layout on my own so having pockets to insert pictures in are a lifesaver.

My main goal about documenting this year is to give digital scrapbooking a try. Becky Higgins offers an app where in you can make digital scrapbook pages right in your device. I’m still on the fence about it because I know I can pretty much do the same thing using photoshop. All I’m paying for is the convenience of being able to create pages on the go. I’m hoping to make up my mind soon enough.

 

So there it is. These are all of the things I would like to work on in 2018. What about you? What are your goals/resolutions for this year?

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HAUL: Books I Got For Christmas

Over Blogmas, I posted about my bookish wishlist which my husband asked me to give him. It was a hefty list for me given I don’t know if I will have the time to read half of it. My loving husband, however, came through and got me enough which would probably last for quite a while in the next year. Here are the books I got for Christmas:

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  • The Chronicles of Narnia by C. S. Lewis – My husband was worried about this already being in my read list that he asked me if I have a list of books I have already read. I didn’t hesitate on showing him my Goodreads profile for him to check. I’ve seen the movies, but I haven’t actually read the books so I’m pretty excited about this.
  • Dante’s The Divine Comedy – This is one I wasn’t expecting to get. I haven’t tried scanning it so I don’t know how the writing will be like. It will take me a while to get through this one but I’m pretty stoked about it.
  • The Lunar Chronicles by Marissa Meyer – I have read Cinder and enjoyed it a lot. I love the idea of fairytale retellings with a twist. I have the rest of the series on my TBR list for a while now but between new releases, and book-to-movie adaptations this series just kept on getting pushed back. Hopefully in the coming year, despite the number of adaptations which will be coming out, I would get to finish at least half of the series.

Those are all the books I got for Christmas. My TBR pile is growing so fast I honestly can’t keep up. Haha! Oh well. Here’s to hoping this coming year will allow me to read more amidst the new baby.

Cheers!

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What I learned form my blogging hiatus

I have taken a small break from blogging and it has been a few months. Was the said break needed? I would like to think so as it helped me realize a few things that I wouldn’t have if I didn’t.

  • It got exhausting. This was probably the first thing I realized a week into my hiatus. I wanted the presentation to be perfect which resulted into a lot of overthinking and over-editing (if that is even a term). I spent way more time into taking and editing pictures, formatting, even the site’s theme than focusing more on the content. I also found out that having to blogs to regularly update is not for me.
  • I lost sight of what I wanted to write about. It got to the point where I would read and follow numerous blogs to see which topics are getting talked about a lot. That was how I got into Project Life and why I started my own Bullet Journal. In my defence, I did end up liking those two things. However, looking at different blog post in search of what to write about to guarantee views was not something I thought I would end up doing. Sure I post (and will post) about mainstream things if I end up liking them BUT I also would like to think I am able to offer something different. I ended up writing about things other people would like to read rather than share my ideas and thoughts.
  • I missed it. I would often get random thoughts which are way too long for Twitter or Facebook and blogging has helped with that.
  • I need to be on top of blog posts/ideas. This will be the first time where I will proactively list down blog post ideas that will come to me. I have dedicated a pre-programmed app on my phone for this purpose and I have set up a page on my bullet journal as well. I found that when my ideas are scattered everywhere, I don’t get anything done. I plan to change that.

Here is to hoping I would be much better at keeping this. What better way to kick off my birthday month right?

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